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Questionnair by: TheReverendsWife
Site creation: The_Engineer7
This questionnaire should be filled out by a Sub/Bottom & by a Dom/Top before play. This will provide a quick "head-start" to identifying limits, negotiating and finding common ground for play.
There is intentionally some overlap between categories. Unless otherwise stated, the Sub is the recipient of the activity.
For each item, you need to provide two answers:
- First select YES or NO next to each item to indicate if you have ever DONE that activity. Mark N/A if it does not apply to your gender.
- Indicate for each item how you FEEL about that activity by rating it on a scale of NO or O to 5.
- NO - you will NOT do that item under any circumstances (a hard limit).
- 0 (zero) - indicates you have utterly no desire to do that activity and don't like doing it (in fact, may loath it) and would ordinarily object to doing it, but you would be willing to do it to please the Dominant if it they really wanted it. (sometimes called a "soft limit").
- 1 - you don't want to do or like to do this activity but wouldn't object if it was asked of you
- 2 - you are willing to do this activity, but it has no special appeal for you.
- 3 - you usually like doing this activity, at least on an irregular/occasional basis.
- 4 - you like doing this activity and would like to experience it on a regular basis.
- 5 - the activity is a turn-on for you.
- Check those items which you are willing to do only with your current sex partner(s), but not with casual play partners.
- Note any additional information that might be important for your Dom to know in the comments box.